So did I. GF at the time and I used to have some gay friends over for dinner every once in a while. Monogamous in long term relationships, professional, eschewed the 'flaming faggot" image.. Then one time they brought a couple friends and the topic turned to AIDS. This was back in 80's, when Ronald Ray-Gun was president and his position was that AIDS was God's punishment. These guys were really bitter about that, and as discussion went on, revealed that not only were they HIV positive but were purposely going around having unprotected sex with women, telling them they had vasectomy, trying to infect heterosexual population in the hopes that govt. would then start sponsoring research, etc. This was early days of HIV and before people really knew if transmittable to women. These guys were so self centered that they were seriously trying to rationalize trying to infect women with a deadly disease. That's about when I made them leave my house. And to tell the truth, have been somewhat prejudice against gays ever since.